Friday, April 20, 2012

Death to Death: Greek Easter on Sifnos


Spring on Sifnos


We returned to Sifnos, thrilled to unpack more permanently and reconnect with the community.  Gerhard and Karoline arrived a week earlier to find the cottage in excellent condition.  We cannot say the same for the landscaping.  Not many of our ex-pat friends are yet on the island.  Nevertheless, we are happy to be with local friends who survived a particularly cold winter and the woes of Greece.  While Gerhard and Karoline were settling in I attended dad’s funeral services. This required six days of travel to allow for six grieving days in the company of extended family.  Now it is Easter season, the highlight of the Greek year.

Coincidentally, my own state of sadness mimics the dolorous yet, ultimately, uplifting community experience of Easter in Greece.  Schools and many businesses shut down during the two weeks surrounding Orthodox Easter.  This is a time when Sifnos usually experiences a burst of visitors who wish to celebrate in traditional island style.  However, the economic woes are distressing most families and many cannot afford even the price of a ferry ticket.  In addition, many chose to avoid unreliable ferries triggered by inconsistent weather and strikes.  While Easter celebrations are subdued this year, it is likely more authentic to the original purpose of honoring Jesus’ sacrifices and example of faithful living. 
Red dyed Easter eggs


During each day of Holy Week the village churches host two multi-hour services.  Each service focuses on a different station of the cross.  Good Friday is perhaps the most dramatic when a candlelit procession carries the epitaphion (symbolic coffin of Jesus) from the church, through the village, to the cemetery, then circles back to the church.  Participants chant mesmerizing hymns along the way.  Devote women remain in church overnight for ritualistic mourning.  At midnight on Saturday a church service culminates in a brief display of fireworks (one set per church).  Earlier in the day the flame has arrived on Sifnos from Athens, having originated in Jerusalem.  Congregants carry home the flame in lanterns where the blessing protects the family until the following year.  For older godchildren, godparents cleverly decorate candles (labatha) to encourage practice of this ritual.   Younger godchildren tend to receive a new pair of shoes.  Unique to this night, all businesses and homes are lit up in celebration.  In the wee hours of Sunday “death to death” is declared and the 40-day Lenten fast is broken.  As a game, possessors of dyed red eggs hit one another’s, hoping theirs remains the last to be fully intact.  If so, they are the one blessed with good luck for the year.  Many enjoy eating a traditional stew of lamb offal, dill, rice and egg.  Later in the day the extended family gathers for a big feast, the centerpiece of which is a whole spit-roasted lamb.  On Sifnos it is equally common to serve Mastello which is a stew of lamb in red wine.  Traditional dessert is sweet Easter bread, usually presented as a braid with a red dyed egg nestled atop.  From a friend’s veranda we entertained ourselves by watching from afar as family clusters ate, sang and danced on their own verandas.  

Spring in Kastro
To be a Greek housewife during this period requires the utmost of endurance when practicing all the traditions.   Or so I found.  I am sure that attempting to make red dyed eggs, knead Easter bread, prepare Mastello, and create a labatha for the first time required more effort than if it were habit.  Having said that, unlike the more devote, I did not attend church daily or observe the Lenten dietary restrictions.   Even so, having contentedly survived, I feel a strong need for re-energizing and de-toxing spa treatments.

A few unique Sifnos experiences along the way:
·      Yiannis the goat herder stopped by for his daily coffee and kept us abreast of news.  He says “simera”, and intones “baa, baa”, then swipes the flat of his hand across his neck, screwing up his face with a fateful look – all code for “I’m slaughtering the lamb today.”  He promises a small gift of said meat.
·      Through word of mouth I learn that septuagenarian Kateh offers for sale freshly slaughtered lamb.  In her farm store I watch with admiration as she expertly lifts the huge cleaver.  With full body force she whacks at bone and meat, repeatedly.  I receive half of a lamb, 5.4 kilos, neatly cut into pieces. 
·      Kateh also sells her son’s locally produced sweet red wine. I follow her into the farm’s kitchen that serves both family and business needs.  Moving aside layers of filled egg cartons and drying mounds of homemade cheeses, she reaches for the siphon from the wine vat to fill my plastic water bottle full of the wine. 
·      Kateh teaches me how to prepare Mastello.  It is super simple.  In a large clay pot place grape vine branches on the bottom to act like a frame. Layer fennel fronds and portion-sized pieces of lamb that are seasoned with salt and pepper, (bone and some fat included).  Pour in some wine.  Cover and bake on low heat for 6 hours, ideally in one of the island’s ubiquitous outdoor wood burning ovens.  Considering how simple the technique, the dish is deliciously rich.  It tastes better after resting for a day.  Leftovers freeze well.
·      Our rental car broke down.  While waiting the five days for parts to arrive by ferry, we walk everywhere.  Escorting Karoline home from Greek school, we stop by Flora’s farm to see how this octogenarian is faring.  Before our departure in mid-December we found her ailing and in bed.  I was fearful of the worst.  Instead, she was reigning over her farm stand, complaining only of a sore hip and leg.  Requesting greens, I follow her into the fields to help select horta, (similar to collard greens), arugula, dill and broccoli.  We also buy fresh eggs.  Shyly, Flora asks for payment and I eagerly oblige, relieved not to be paying the otherwise exorbitant store prices.
·      Being the excellent saleswoman that Flora is, I am persuaded to buy the clay pot used for Mastello from her grandson’s adjacent pottery workshop.  Her grandson Yiannis teaches me how to cure the pot:  1 cup of olive oil and water to fill the pot.  Leave in the sun until all water has evaporated.  Voila!
·      As Karoline and I take the daily hike from town to home, I forage for fennel fronds as seasoning for the Mastello.
Labatha for sale

·      On the island for Easter vacation, friends from Athens stop by for café und kuchen.  While the kids play, we peer into the dramas and stresses that are common in Athens today.  The family construction business is in dire straits.  Selling assets allows them to pay off loans that failing banks insist must be redeemed pre-maturely.  The portfolio shrinks.  What does survive is underwater.  Neighbors on Sifnos complain about the eyesore that is their half-built construction project.  The view limits tourist appeal and thus affects villagers’ business.  Otherwise healthy relationships are now tarnished.  The saving grace is investment from a Saudi family.  The only capital available is from the Middle East.  The investors expect a return so work must go on.  While building on Sifnos is cheap now there are too few buyers.  The best hope for the new houses will be to temporarily offer them as vacation rentals.  However, nether is this promising considering that there is a glut in vacation rentals.  Perhaps they can take the business to the Middle East and build where there is demand.  When income is generated, it is unclear how much is available to manage cash flow because the Greek tax regulation is in a constant state of flux.  Their three children continue with private schooling, even when the school is failing.   Most parents can no longer afford the tuition.  Ex-pats who had filled the school have returned to their home countries because they lost their Greek jobs.  If this family is forced to pull out of private school, then they will emigrate and start over again, likely in Germany.  At least, for this multi-culti, multi-lingual family, emigration is a realistic option.  They notice that the people around them are not taking responsibility for the need to change.  A common sentiment is: “This situation is not my fault.  It is everyone else who must change.  Not me.”  It would be different if there were hope.  Yet, “as thinking people”, it is quite clear that there is no reason to place faith in the country’s leadership—business, political or religious —to find a successful path forward.  We haven’t seen the worst of it yet.  But, hey, the apple crumble is delicious.

Thursday, April 19, 2012

Skiing, the Ups and Downs, in La Thuile, Italy


La Thuile, near Mont Blanc
For the grand finale of our three months of suitcase travel, we skied during the days in La Thuile, as expected.  Not so expected were the evenings spent processing a severance package offered by IBM, while simultaneously arranging to attend my dad’s funeral.  The year abroad, intended for refreshment, reflection and renewal, has truly become a rite of passage.  My head is spinning.
Balcony of home exchange house
Once again, this time in the old alpine village of La Thuile, under the shadow of Mont Blanc, Italy offers finely cultivated living.  We enjoyed Spring skiing and Karoline surprised us all by achieving a new level of competence.  None of us broke a leg or sniffled from a cold.  When not skiing we were swimming in the town’s indoor pool or exploring little alpine towns, savoring the connections with history and the art of living well.  Being avid admirers of finely prepared foods, and with access to a very good kitchen, we became friends with the butcher, cheese maker, vintner, and baker.  Our home exchange hosts once again honored us with generous hospitality.  An ancient barn had been converted into their beautifully decorated second home.  We slept in what had been an animal pen.  During construction they found remnants of an 18th century monk’s candle-making workshop in the barn’s loft.  This is where Karoline slept.
Favorite house in La Thuile



With mixed feelings, our three months exploration came to an end and we routed through Milan for the flight to Athens.  In Milan we spent an afternoon near the Central train station, coming to realize that this is the immigration hub.  Here Karoline enjoyed a much needed hair trim in a Chinese salon.  It was also a Chinese family who served us pizza and spaghetti in their very Italian restaurant and a Chinese family who operated our hotel.    The world is small, is it not?    



La Thuile tips:

Once in La Thuile a car is unnecessary.  Getting to La Thuile can be a challenge and we found the best approach to be a 4 hour bus ride (with two transfers) to return to Milano.  And then we need to take the Metro, with one transfer, to reach Milano Central station for the transfer to the airport.

Homeexchange.com #150571  :  Large enchanting alpine house nestled in an old town within walking distance to the ski slopes. 

Elegant alpine restaurant with a continental flare to local cuisine:  La Creche; +39.335.5244943; via Paolo Debernard, La Thuile

Best pizza in Italy:  Pizzeria Ristorante Du Tunnel; via Circonvallazione n. 80, Courmayeur; +39.0165.841705

Popular restaurant for pizza and more, and our host’s favorite:  La Pepita in La Thuile

At the base of the La Thuile ski lift is a large grocery store, charcuterie and cheese shop.

In the big hotel at the base of the ski lift is a lap pool and work out center (Gerhard finds the equipment old and locker room for men horrible).  I liked the pool and sauna for women.

Internet services are a challenge.  1 hour free in the afternoons at the public library in town, or, for 5 euros during your stay, from 7 p.m. to 3 a.m. there is wifi at the noisy bar at the base of the ski lift, and an extension of the big hotel.  Our hosts loaned us his UMTS USB port cellular service which runs at 14 Mbps, max.

A local bus service can drop you at the full service spa and thermal baths in Pre Saint Didier (we didn’t try it find the fee a bit rich, euros 42 per person)

Courmayeur is also a charming town and worth a stroll through.  The local bus service can drop you there in 20 minutes.

Sunday, February 26, 2012

Respite in Bellagio, on Lake Como


Hike affords view down onto Bellagio, Lake Como, Italy

We are enjoying a pleasant and productive visit to Bellagio, on Lake Como, a 15 minute ferry ride from Varenna, which is a 45 minute train ride from Milano.  After scoping out a tourist itinerary for Milano and investigating hotels, we made our first deviation from the original plan and decided, instead, to stay in an apartment on Lake Como. 
Shop and House in Bellagio

At this point, we are fatigued with bustling densely populated cities and too much restaurant eating.  We hit the wall with each others company the day before friend Gina arrived in Rome...two weeks ago. On that day, rather than risk the wraith of my intolerance and sniping at either K or G for very small yet consistent 'infractions', I buried my face in a book.  Gina's stay with us was coincidentally fortuitous as it gave us the excuse to find mental space from one another for ten days, while she appreciated all of our attentions.  We are also finding it redundant (to put it mildly) to load gear, decipher maps, decode transportation systems, translate menus or food labels, and wear *that one t-shirt or pair of jeans* again and again.  But, there isn't much to be done about all of that at the moment, and we have only one more destination before returning to Sifnos.  Three months fly by!

Prada Shoes on display in Milan
Fashion Week is underway in Milano, clogging up our preferred hotels.  Besides, we realized that tourists can see the city's historical highlights in one--very dense--day.  Since Lake Como is conveniently close, we took the train into the city for a day and have otherwise hovered in Bellagio.  We used the excursion as yet another *teaching moment* and insisted that Karoline take the leadership to navigate us through the Top 10 "Must See" sights of Milan.  She did a marvelous job of preparing the itinerary, monitoring the maps, navigating the streets, finding the right train on the right track, transitioning to the right metro line, buying tickets for transportation and museums, etc.  Despite her complaining and grumbling, I can tell that she is proud of her practical living skills.  I see the boost in her self-confidence.  
Galleria Vittorio Emmanuela, Milan


During the week Bellagio has been idyllic and quiet.  The apartment is perfect for our needs--new, minimally furnished, well laid out, fully equipped, comfortable, clean, and only steps from the ferry dock and awesome views.  From the apartment window we can see a church steeple.  Its bells ring prettily on the hour and half hour; 7 a.m. to 10 p.m.  At 8 p.m. each evening someone is playing a tune on its carillon bells and we have fun guessing the name of the composer.  Yesterday evening, around 9 p.m., a chorus of voices sang a hymn while the congregation streamed from the church and down the street. 

At noon yesterday, a Saturday, we stepped out the door for our jogs and were surprised to find the harbor brimming with day visitors.  The Europeans are still not accustomed to joggers:  Karoline and I had our fair share of arrogant snide comments from passersby.  For some reason, the Harley rider gangs and clusters of flashy spandex clad cyclists didn't seem to capture as much attention.  We caught up with Gerhard at an outdoor lakeside cafe where he and Karoline inhaled an ice cream sundae and we watched the glamorously clad strollers pass by the outstanding view.  

Milan has become a city for cyclists


Here in Bellagio Karoline is making satisfying progress with her studies, Gerhard and I are completing our U.S. tax return, and I am drafting a new page for the book.  We are becoming known by the local food shop owners since we do a daily run for our meal preparations.  I am surprised at how well my recalled Italian gets us through our shopping and general inquiries.  Karoline comments that the place feels so much like Sifnos during the low season--friendly casual locals have time to make pleasant conversation.


Bellagoio Tip; apartment:  WWW.BORGORESIDENCE.IT

Life is a Theater: Carnevale in Venice




Carnevale revelers on Piazza San Marco




Gina is still with us and we are enjoying civilized society as only Venetians know how.  We arrived in the snow and may depart in the snow as well.  In between it has been more pleasant to be out and about.  As I write we use the day’s rain as an excuse to get caught up on school work, correspondence, organizing photos, and detoxing our bodies after days of over indulging.  The city has been celebrating Carnevale since our arrival and it is one crowded party scene.  Fortunately, our old, lovely and comfortable home exchange townhouse is in the quieter Siestere of Dorsoduro, surrounded by all the services we could hope for.  
Our grocer in Dorsoduro
Local wine merchant
  The host family is in town, bunking with the grandparents.  The couple work together in their own film making firm that also specializes in organizing grand events in Venice, Carneval being one of them.  On the few occasions when they can break away from work, they have given us the inside scoop on what it has taken to manage this year's festivities.   Amongst other events, they are responsible for the grand finale, the vogata, which is a centuries old tradition of a candlelit gondola caravan that cruises the Grand Canal, this year culminating in a bonfire of a huge floating bull sculpture.  They convinced us to stay an extra two days to participate.  
La Vogata del Silenzio


I don't know how they do it, but the couple has found the time to introduce us to their parents, giving us insight to how old Venetian families live daily.  Both families live in inherited homes in very old palazzos full of Venetian antiques.  We are overwhelmed by their hospitality. 

Yes, we did buy masks and capes for nightly strolls along with the other costumed tourists.  We danced to a DJ in the gated VIP section on St. Mark's Square, thanks to comp tickets from our hosts.  No, we decided against participating in any of the numerous costumed balls, and we dodged the jam-packed streets between San Marco and the Rialto bridge.  Otherwise, the street scene is good enough for us!
Guess who

Venice Tips:
 
Official municipal site for all things Carneval in Venice:  http://www.carnevale.venezia.it/?slang=en

Home exchange townhouse: http://www.homeexchange.com/show.php?id=87396

Restaurants:  The following are the type we prefer.  They are local neighborhood places, casual and bustling yet with white linen tablecloth, super service, excellent cooking, served with a friendly smile and within Euros 30-50 per person for a full dinner.
            Quattro Feri, Dorsoduro, Calle Lunga | Campo S. Barnaba especially for seafood, yet good all around.  
            Locanda Montin, Dorsoduro 1147 for excellent seafood
Incognito
             
Antica Osteria Al Pantalon, Dosoduro; 041.710849, where we took Giorgia and Francesco for the very best prepared seafood I can recall
             
On Murano is very good pizza and other food at Osteria al Duomo; Fondamenta Maschio 20-1; 0415274303

Wine for the daily table is extra good, even if cheap, when buying from Mattiazzi Danilo on Calle Lunga in Dorsoduro.  He operates a low key operation:  doesn’t even make business cards and his signs are hand written.  While he sells wine by the bottle he will also siphon off any quantity you like from his huge basket-encased vats into your own bottles.  His number is 041 522639 6 or 335266574 .
Fresh delicious organic veggies are sold from a boat along one of the minor canals in Dorsoduro.  Prices are very reasonable.

Carneval masks and Murano glass trinkets are in good selection and more reasonably priced when buying in the gifts shops in Dorsoduro.

Besides taking a pause for a coffee break, also try a Ciccheto, a snack with a glass of wine at one of the bars suited for that purpose

Books: 
Death in Venice by Thomas Mann
The City of Falling Angels by John Berendt

The movie The Tourist has a terrible plot yet you can see Johnny Depp pulling stunts in gorgeous Venice scenery.
Doing the Italian Look


Roman Holiday


Michelangelo's The Creation, Sistine Chapel, The Vatican

Desiree, Lorenzo, Vicky perform at Big Mama's
It snowed and there were more Romans on the streets with cameras than tourists.  We were social creatures in Rome, basing ourselves in an enchanting petite apartment near the Coliseum. Our home exchange hosts, Desiree and Lorenzo, treated us to a concert they performed at a blues club "Big Mama" where she sang Bacharach and he played contralto bass, accompanied by musician friends.  Their au pair Vicky, 18 years old, from New Zealand, joined in on violin for one of the numbers.  

Desiree, who works for Fendi, led a tour of its headquarters and flagship store near the Spanish Steps.  While admiring her office, (decorated in the original 17th century Oriental decor), we encountered and conversed with the CEO.  He invited us for a private tour of the new Spring collection displayed on the rooftop that has 360 views of Rome.  We admired the garments and then the fur atelier.  This experience gave Karoline the fashion bug:  "How did Desiree get her job?"
Rain on Spanish Steps
 1981 Wellesley classmate Mary Bartman, has since become Roman.  She and partner Roberto overwhelmed us with Roman hospitality, hosting dinners in restaurants owned by their friends.  As an extra special treat, friend Gina from San Francisco has joined us for a week. 

With an extra day to spare,  we took the train to the beach resort town of Gaeta so that I could show Karoline where I lived at her age when dad was intelligence officer on the Sixth Fleet flagship, (photos:  http://share.shutterfly.com/action/welcome?sid=2AbuXLhw1bsWTM

Rome Tips:

The Little Black Book of ROME is an excellent concise small guide with maps for touring neighborhoods, sites, shops, restaurants.

Restaurant near Vatican is San Marco (pizza and other Italian dishes); via Tacito 27/29; 06.32.35.596; be assumptive and work your way into the left/back of the restaurant for a table because this section is decorated more finely.  Bathrooms are cool; be sure to check them out.  We three had pizza and broccoli, a shared dessert, 2 coffees, glass of wine, beer, water for Euros 60

Restaurant Ristorante ‘34’; via Mario de fiori, 34 (very near Spanish steps; Metro Spagna), 06 6795091 (closed Monday) www.al34.it

Restaurant near Spanish steps is Trattoria/Pizzeria Arancio d’Or; via Monte d’Oro 17; +39.06.68.65.026.  Authentic Roman, off beaten track so does not attract tourists. 

Desiree Petrocchi (http://www.myspace.com/desireepetrocchi ) has a natural talent in voice and is an excellent performer.  Lorenzo Feliciati (http://www.lorenzofeliciati.com/ ) was all you would want a jazz bass performer to be:  cool, calm and talented.  Big Mama (http://www.bigmama.it/index.html ) is a small blues venue perfect for a casual gathering and in a 'happening' neighborhood.  Accoustics are very good. 

Restaurant in Trastevere:  Before the performance we ate at Checco er Carettiere; via Benedetta 7; 06 581 14 13 and can highly recommend it for excellent Roman food, ambience and service, (although it is a bit pricey).

Restaurant in Gaeta:  Masaniello; Piazza Commestibili 6; beside the Carbanari building near the Coast Guard offices.  Fish and other typical local dishes; decent ambience (cloth table) and good/efficient service. 

Restaurant Tien Tsin off Piazza di Spagna offers decent Chinese food in a nice ambience and helpful pleasant wait staff.  Prices are reasonable.  Via Capo le Case, 55; 06.67.92.297

Restaurant Pizzeria Vignola near Stadio Flamino (Metro Flamino to Tram 2 5 stops).  Very good Roman food from appetizers through dessert.  Pizzas look fab.  Prices reasonable.  Casual atmosphere.  Very popular with neighbors.  Via del Vignola 25/27; 06.322.74.51; www.ristorantevignola.it; closed Wednesday

Hotel Capo d’Africa near Colosseum.  Gina stayed here and highly recommends it for touring.
Restaurant Naumachia near the Colloseum is Desiree’s favorite in the neighborhood.  Try their antipasti specialty by asking for the fried zucchini flower.  Inside is a hint of anchovy and mozzarella cheese.  Via Celimontana, 7; 067002764
Snowstorm closed museums, schools and public transportation


Friday, February 10, 2012

The Hammam Demystified in Istanbul, Turkey


Inside Agia Sophia, Istanbul, Turkey

January 31, 2012

No, not the harem—which is demystified during tours of the fascinating Ottoman Empire palaces sprinkled throughout the Istanbul area.  I do mean inside the hammam.  This was my first experience with Turkish public bath rituals.  In Istanbul the tourist can find spa treatments in several modernized hammams.  Instead, I wanted a local scene and selected a hammam near a residential neighborhood mosque.  This is how it worked:  With a hair brush and forty lira in my purse I entered through the ladies door of the hammam and was greeted in a lounge area by a kind attendant.  After selecting the basic bath/pool package, including a vigorous scrubbing and massage, I was given a sarong, towel, key to a private dressing room and a new scrubbing mitt.  The dressing room was large enough to include a sofa with pillow for private lounging….a nap, thought I? 
Turkish tea in slim waisted glass
A cluster of girl friends were hanging out in one similar, drinking cups of tea and making merry conversation.  After locking my clothes in the private dressing room, clad in the sarong, I was directed down to the baths and pointed to a water basin in a pod of others.  All was clean steamy moist marble.  The pretty ceiling captured my eye:  sunlight streamed through numerous round pieces of glass, like stars, inserted into white plaster domes.   From the basin of running hot water I mimicked the other women in my pod who used a small bucket to pour water over the body again and again,  allowing time to open pores.  I spent another ten minutes in the sauna for the same purpose, accompanied by two giggling grand dames who spoke endless Turkish to me, even when they knew I understood not a word of it.  The masseuse and scrubber extracted me, pointing to a marble slab in the center of the room large enough to fit three reclining women.  There she gave me a lengthy massage and rigorous rub down, removing the top layer of my skin.  Oddly, the uniform of the two professional masseses was pretty black lingerie.  My scrubber wore a bra and under pants while the other wore only under pants.  Roughly a dozen other women were also in the baths:  a cluster of mom friends with their toddlers in tow, two sets of friends, one mother-daughter couple, and a pair of sisters.  It seems that the baths are a perfect place to parade in one's lovely underwear:  All wore either under pants or bathing suits.  There was much chatter, merriment, and an occasional break out into song as the women bathed one another.  After the scrub, the masseuse escorted me back to the basin where she cleaned my hair with shampoo and soaped my body, rinsing all with bucket after bucket of water.  What a luxury!  I was sent back to the changing room to dry off.  In the lounge area, while using the communal blow dryer, a cup of tea was served.  There the attendant runs a side business: she captured the attention of a cluster of guests lounging on divans and modeled a line of leisure wear on sale.  After 1.5 hours of special attention, I felt oh-so-relaxed-and-radiant.  Next time, along with my hair brush, I will bring an extra pair of pretty under pants and a girl friend. 
 
Descending through quaint Bebek to the Bosphorus
Overall, we had a marvelous experience in Istanbul--what a fascinating city and country!  I found myself shedding preconceptions and learning anew the unique east-meets-west culture.  In addition to the hammam, other highlights were the Bosphorus boat cruise, the Top Kapi Ottoman palace and underground Roman cistern tours.  Topping off the sojourn was listening to ex-pat Julia’s stories about living in a shared rental apartment with other young Turkish women....sort of Sex In The City penniless Turkish style.  Julia is one of the college students we hosted in our Berkeley home when she was interning for Berkeley Press a few summers ago.  Now a Wellesley graduate, she is successfully working as a freelance writer while learning Turkish and waiting for a PhD program to accept her.  We managed to share the better part of three days with Julia, touring and filling her with nutritious meals. 

Sinan's mosque on the Bosphorus
Because Istanbul fully occupied our eight days in Turkey, we made it no further into the country.  Three days of heavy snowfall, inefficient public transit systems on congested roads, and Gerhard's virus cold and suffering knee also meant a slower pace than we usually expect of ourselves.  While Gerhard and I had our hammam experiences, Karoline preferred to spend the time in the apartment on the slow internet service taking quizzes and completing a significant 7th grade lesson milestone. 

View from apartment in Akatlar
We lodged in an attractive rental apartment in a relatively quiet middle class residential neighborhood.  We were thankful to be surrounded by creature comforts that included a kitchen, privacy, space, and spectacular views of the snow shrouded city from the living room picture window. 

As I write we are doing a load of laundry and expect to pack before falling asleep.  Tomorrow we fly to Rome where we will stay in another apartment, another home exchange arrangement.

Istanbul resources:

We can recommend the rental apartment offered by excellent hostess Oya.  One caveat:  transportation into the heart of the city is a bit problematic.  Streets are frequently congested with vehicles.  Metro, metrobus and trams don’t use the car roads so can be faster, but are not particularly easy to reach from the apartment.  The public transit system is crowded and it takes a while to learn the system.  In the 8 days here, we did not master the system.  If the goal is to race through the tourist sites in a quick few days one is better off lodging closer to them,  (www.istanbulcondo.com) .

Mehmet Tetik is an excellent tour guide who will pick up/deliver by car:  http://www.turkeytravelplanner.com/guides/tetik_m.html
mobile number: +90 5326120113

I actively read and can recommend any of these guidebooks available in the rental apartment:
Wallpaper City Guide, Phaidon
Eyewitness Travel:  Istanbul
Rick Steves’ Istanbul (my favorite)
The Rough Guide to Istanbul
Culture Smart Turkey

Restaurants we can highly recommend:
Ciya in Kadikoy; reached by taking the ferry to the Asian side of the Bosphorus
As Pera in the fish market (Sancaktepe Merkez Mah. Ataturk Cad, No. 72) which is a street perpendicular to famed Istiklar St. in Taksim.
Asitane restaurant next door to Chora Church.

Hammam associated with mosque Mihrimah, very near Chora Church.

Pamuk’s Nobel Prize winning book Istanbul:  Memories and the City provides an entertaining read and useful cultural insight
Ataturk by Lord Kinross is extremely well written. 
Birds without Wings by Louis de Bernieres is a lovely if sad story based on real history
Not Even My Name by Thea Halo is a true story about the forced march out of Turkey by Pontic Greeks and Armenians around WWI.

Mehmet Tetik recommends the following Sufi music:
CD NeyIstanbul (flute-like music)
Anything by Kutsi Erguner, or, more modern, Mercan Dede

Friday, January 27, 2012

Reporting from Tahir Square, Cairo and Cruising the Nile



Egypt Museum, Cairo (in background is Min of Interior building burnt during last January's protests)

 It is January 20th.  After a few days in Cairo we flew to Luxor where we rambled the streets behind the tourist area.  From Luxor we joined a four night cruise on the Nile Shams, a 70-room ship, finishing in Aswan and returning to Cairo on the overnight sleep train.  From Cairo we took a day's excursion via train to Alexandria.

A few observations about Egypt:

Despite appearances, (ubiquitous machine gun-carrying security guards and security checkpoints), we feel welcome and safe everywhere and in all conditions.
Enjoying views of the Nile as we cruise on the Nile Shams

 
Top Kapi chicken is the best of the breed ever eaten.  Chicken pieces, with bone, are stuffed with rice raisins, cinnamon and other spices, wrapped in foil, baked, and the tops broiled. Yum.  This was served at Doka Restaurant for Nubian style food in Aswan.  Of other Egyptian food, we also enjoy vegetable and rice stuffed grape vine leaves, Babaganoush (grilled eggplant, garlic, lemon, and a bit of yogurt), and oriental salad (tomato, cucumber, red onion, parsley soaked in lemon juice).

Nubian tea service
Radios blare pop Arabic music, yet are switched off upon the muezzin’s first cry to prayer.  Initially soothing, the first muezzin is joined or usurped by others.  When lucky this generates a lovely harmony.  However, more often, the competing chants, (many not melodious), grate like chalk on a blackboard.  We wake up, sometimes as early as 3:30 a.m., not to an alarm clock but to the first cry to prayer.

Beyond the melodious call for prayer, another sound fresh to my ear is the slap of slippers smacking the hard packed dirt road.  Part of the Muslim street costume includes the practical plastic or leather slippers that are so easy to remove before prayer, before nesting into a pile of cushions at a café, or before entering any home.

Rosy dust from the ubiquitous unpaved roads coats clothing up to the knee.

Pervasive cigarette smoke is cloaked by frankincense, when we are lucky.

In Cairo, shoppers port their purchases
A tourist cannot escape from the lures into scent shops.  Thrice we became captives yet were rewarded with insightful conversation.  We learned:
            - Minute details of the Revolution’s beginning days, January 25th through 29th, 2011, from a shopkeeper who sells wares directly on Tahir Square.  Mohammed, the shop owner, believes this Revolution will be successful because of two indicators:  1) A young man and a young WOMAN attended a table in Tahir Square where lost cell phones, wallets, etc were displayed for the owning protesters to come by and collect.  To his knowledge, no one stole from this cache of belongings.  2)  None of the stores surrounding Tahir Square were looted or damaged.  I saw a poster in one of the metro stops that advertised, (paraprhased), "President Obama wishes to see American students educated in the same fashion as the youthful Revolutionaries of Egypt".
           - Egyptians welcome the Revolution, recognizing it to be so badly needed:  “Enough is enough” they sigh in despair.  Most young Egyptians would rather emigrate than stay and fight, if they only could.  An emigration lottery grants 15,000 Egyptians a year to depart for the United States, one of the most preferred destinations.
            - The Nubian bride prepares herself for the wedding day with a cooked rice scrub, followed by a full body immersion in a frankincense steam bath, and tops off the treatment with a full body henna tattoo.
            - Concocting perfume from pure essential oils is straightforward, as is preparing and applying medicines from essential oils.

Plenty of columns, statues and hieroglyphs to see on a Nile cruise
We squirm in our shoes with the guilt of the blessed as we tolerate innumerable prods, literally physical, from desperate street vendors trying to make an Egyptian pound.  Tourism is substantially down during this high season.  Our Nile cruise boat was only 75% capacity and that was way more than any other we saw.  Of the fleet of 450 cruise boats, it is my estimate that no more than 50 are in operation.  We found ourselves dining alone in restaurants that would normally be swarming with tourists.  At some historical sites, we might be the only ones in any given square or room, when normally we would have been fighting for foot space, shoulder to shoulder.  We are surrounded by poverty and it is impossible to ignore it.

Much of our thinking power is absorbed with negotiating prices for even the smallest of purchases or determining the appropriate level of baksheesh.  The U.S. dollar is now worth 6.7 Egyptian pounds.  Given slow tourism and general unemployment, demand is low making prices low as well.  It is impossible to apply U.S. tipping or pricing paradigms here.

Practically all vendors and service providers are men.  On a rare occasion I overpaid for a small bag of peanuts just because I was thrilled to be negotiating with a sales woman.

Dinner Club boats on the Nile in Cairo
Buying an embroidered Egyptian cotton tee-shirt as a gift for a five year old Italian friend, I was (unusually) enjoying the banter and lengthy fussing over price that is the expected means for making a purchase.  With the price differential at my offer of 10 and the seller’s asking of 70, bored Karoline and Gerhard meandered on to the next store.  Some five minutes later I had reached the final handshake at 20 Egyptian pounds when Gerhard returned to the scene.  The salesman bellowed, “How much, sir, is your final offer for this tee-shirt?”  Gerhard, thinking it would be helpful, pulled a stern face and growled, “Never more than 40!”  The seller caught me groaning and rolling my eyeballs.  Fortunately, he had enjoyed our little game and, grinning broadly, honored our handshake.  Winking, he informed in parting, “If you wish to have another husband, I am at your service Madame.”

I have learned to fold small bills into the size of my thumb nail so as to discreetly slip “thanks” into open palms.  While baksheesh is expected, a frontal display of the tip is considered terribly gauche.

Experiencing sheesha at a tea house in Cairo
We experiment with the tea house scene and indulge in samples of Turkish coffee, mint tea, hot hibiscus tea, falafel sandwich and a sheesha.  As for the sheesha, I found puffing on the hookah to be a relaxing pleasure.  However, upon learning that one serving is equivalent in nicotine consumption to five packs of cigarettes, I refrain form all subsequent offers.

Egyptians may very possibly be the world’s most friendly and outgoing of all peoples.  Folks on the streets approach us for formal introductions and a chance for friendly banter.  My favorite:  a married Muslim woman, and fellow traveler who is about my age, catches my eye on the train platform.  She is covered in black drapes from the top of her head to the bottom of her toes.  From behind her chadar her eyes twinkle with curiosity.  She extends her right gloved hand and we shake heartily in greeting.  She speaks—jibberish to me—and, taking a cue from street kids who like to practice their elementary English, I ask, “What is your name?  My name is Karen.”  She hears my jibberish and her eyes fog with confusion, then fear, then disappointment.  However, her male escort (husband?) murmurs something to her and replies on her behalf, “She name <something like> Chilia.”  I direct a reply to her, “It is nice to meet you Chilia.  My name is Karen.”  She beams upon hearing her name repeated by me.  We lean in to kiss one anothers cheeks and my heart warms.  The train whistles and carries me away.
Magdi tour guide with Nubian school teacher

Men are more becoming than women here.  While not seriously preening or prancing, the general presentation is well groomed and with a pleasing aesthetic sensibility.  There is something rather handsome about the galabeya gown and kefiyeh head scarf, or shawl casually laid on the shoulders.  Many women are over weight and seem to struggle with their step.  With wincing faces, they stomp side to side rather than glide forward.  I wonder if this is related to their enforced indoor and sedentary lifestyle.  When a woman is attractive, she can be exotically so.  The unmarried woman may be colorful, even if forced to drape herself from head to toe.  The rare beauty knows how to defy Islam’s modesty code with curve-clinging full length gowns, sparkling head scarves framing delicate kohl-ringed eyes and brightly painted pouty lips.  Get one to smile and the surrounding men can do nothing but melt into submission.

Nile in Aswan from Old Cataract Hotel
Exploring Egypt is like partaking in a multi-day excursion to Disneyland, Sea World and the zoo—only this is the real thing.  Of all that we have seen of Egypt, I find the views of the islands on the Nile at Aswan to be the most beautiful, especially at sunset.  My favorite activities have been snorkeling at the Blue Hole in Dahab, walking the halls of the Egypt and Islamic Art museums, and observing the scenery from the top deck of the cruise boat as we glided along the Nile.

Gerhard has decided that living Hell would be reincarnation as a Cairo taxi driver.  I posture that if we had stayed in Cairo much longer I would become another one of the scarf-clad chain smoking coffee drinkers--scarf to dodge the stares, cigarettes to reduce tension generated from dealing with the chaos of the city, and coffee to help cope with the many times during the day when things don't go right and patience is the only recourse.  


Train's comfortable sleep car from Aswan to Cairo
We leave Cairo happy for the experience, yet hoping to put behind us the constraints of hotel living, street grime, pollution, crowd congestion and constant probes for baksheesh.  Coincidentally, we depart on the eve of the January 25th anniversary of the Revolution, which will be celebrated in Tahir Square.  The feeling of jubilation is in the air.  When looking for Tabouleh, a famed Lebanese-Egyptian restaurant, we found ourselves caught in the foot traffic of a pre-celebration protest.  Youthful crowds rumbled towards Tahir Square while official looking buildings and international hotels were protected by well equipped police guards.  Wondering about our safety, I asked a café owner what was causing the protest and learned that the issue is that reparations to families of victims slain by military police a year ago remain unaddressed by the court system.  He advises, “Don’t worry; today’s protest is very peaceful.”  This soothed me, until he added, “Insha’Allah”, (“God willing”).

Egypt Travel Resources
Travelling in Egypt is currently very cheap.
Wireless Internet service is crappy on landlines yet is ubiquitous.  We didn’t do it, but maybe quality is better when buying a 3G cellular card for the laptop?
The Lonely Planet Guide was our most helpful resource and we managed to hit all the touristic highlights using it as our primary information source.  While guided tours abound, we tended to prefer exploring on our own.
Longchamps Hotel, in Zemalek district of Cairo, was indeed the right choice of lodging in Cairo—for a chance to be close to real street life, yet offering an oasis of calm, clean large rooms, English/German/French communication, the best yet still slow Wifi internet service, and a guaranteed nutritious breakfast.
Mara House was a fascinating place to observe local person’s Luxor.  Away from the tourist hotels in a working class neighborhood is this well appointed Egyptian version of a B&B operated by a verbose Irish woman.  Insightful recommendations are on her hotel’s web site.
Selecting a Nile Cruise via the internet without an agent saves so much money, yet is nerve wracking and a bit arbitrary.  We lucked out and loved the Nile Shams for it’s luxury, creature comforts, quality of meals and service, and sound touristic itinerary that hits all the highlights through semi-private guides, and includes the fun of horse carriage and felucca rides.
The Dahab Paradise hotel was a perfect choice for a relaxing stay in Dahab:  luxurious; walking distance to town; short taxi ride to the Blue Hole for snorkeling (or diving).
Barbara Fudge is an ex-pat American living in Cairo and offers a casual travel agent’s service.  She was my primary aid in determining what to see and how long to stay in any one place.  If I had wished it, all could have been booked through her.  However, I preferred to be more hands on and engaged in choices. And even without her earning agency fees, she was a big help.  Of course, I managed to say thanks through a shared dinner out and a gift brought from Sifnos in gratitude for her own generosity of spirit. barbfudge@gmail.com

February 10 P.S.  Since writing this post, we see in the news that a) two American women were kidnapped by Bedouins while with a private driver going from St. Catherine's Monastery to Sharm El Shiekh, and, b)  66 people were killed during eruptions at a soccer game in Port Said.  Family members dangerously crowded Ramses train station in central Cairo to make sure their beloved returned from the game.  In both of those cases, it could have been us caught in the action.  Despite feeling safe, the risks need to be considered.